JThere is a very cute barista who works there who I make idle chit chat with time to time when I visit. Nothing serious, because I don't even know how old she is. If I were to venture a guess, maybe early 20s?
I challenge you to find the attractiveness in every woman.
When you go to this speed dating event, Make it all about the person sitting across from you. Remember each of their stories, like you will be tested on it the next day. Enjoy each one of them for who they are. Study them while they talk. Focus hard to remember the color of each persons eyes. Do not give unsolicited advice. Do not talk about yourself unless they ask you questions. Give simple short answers. Flip the questions back to them fairly quickly "What about you, repeat question back"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712