Originally Posted by Gekko
The sound of her voice yelling at the kids to eat their breakfast or to do this or that has become almost unbearable.
I believe there is a balance in expressing emotions. Your W does not know this. She does not have the tools. This is where you may be able to help guide her. Google parenting with love and logic.

H:"W, you sound frustrated."
W:"Bla bla bla "
H:"W, Yes I understand that"
W:"Bla bla bla"

H:"W, well maybe there is something we can do different. I will do some research"



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Constant complaints about things we all deal with in daily existence have worn me out too.
She needs to vent. Woman are wired different. My woman wants me to understand what she FELT through out the day. No mr fix it.

Example: She was angry with her boss. Of course she can not express that anger at work. I get to experience her anger at her boss in the evening. I am strong enough to take it. I make it safe for your to express herself.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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