This isn't about success or failure, you are on a journey of change. You were put on this journey against your will but often in life we have these changes of direction thrust upon us and all we can do is make the best of it that we can.
Very well stated.
After the bomb drop, time slowed way down. Each day felt like it lasted a week. I had a IRL support person. He said go see doctor. Anti-depressants kept the lows from going really low. Sleeping pills helped me sleep.
Take care of you, and your kids. Find happiness in just that.
HUGS
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