Am I in denial or could my wife be 'not as bad as others'?
I am sorry but you are in denial. Your W is a serial cheater which is the lowest of the low as far as WWs.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
But I do know she is struggling with it a little bit. She is not as "gung ho" as some of the other sitches I have read about.
Gung ho on what? Ding you? Right now she is cake eating big time which is what WWs love. The thrill of the A and then to come home to the stability of the family.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
It would seem reasonable that if she were to get int some IC she might just start to realize what is going and as well as get some tools advice to actually focus and deal with what is going on in her head, as apposed to just living through it.
99% of them could right themselves if they were willing to do the work.