Hi -

I read through your story, and thought I would take a stab.

I have to agree with Annalise that it seems like you have no strategy? What is your end goal here? How do you see yourself reaching it?

It sounds like when you practice DB priniciples, he notices. So get a strategy around that, stick with it and make yourself happy at least.

You make 33 sound old. It isn't but will soon be 35, 37, 39 if you don't get a strategy, some goals and act upon them.

Time to take control of the situation and change the game. You have to admit what you are doing now isn't working, so get a plan.

My 2 cents, your mileage may vary. Good Luck.

S

P.S. - Your lovemaking is a powerful tool in this situation - think about it.