You say things simply, succinctly, and in a confident tone of voice:

"W, I will be staying in the home."

Don't discuss her not listening, how it's not her choice to make. She'll figure that part out on her own.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.