WAW says I'm the "perfect husband and partner"

[Jamine]

The more that I read her last message, the more I realized that she didn't actually listen to me during our phone call. I feel like she thinks I'm just going to continue to be a pushover, she even mentioned "co-parenting" our dog if I stay in the area after D. I may stay in the area for a month or two in an apartment, but definitely not for a while.

How should I deal with this? I want to message her back telling her that she didn't listen to me, and these aren't her decisions to make, but I feel like that's not DBing... should I just continue to ignore the message, or should I tell her that I don't feel she was really listening to me in our last conversation, and maybe we should have a redo?