The bomb woke me up, but she still won't talk

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AS and Steve are dead on, I'm just piling on. You'll know when you are ready because you will act. Months ago I said I wanted D, was moving out, was cutting off any support...blah, blah, blah. I just wanted a reaction. Filed then pulled it back, disappeared for a day and came back, didn't pay a bill then paid it late. It doesn't work. Did this multiple times until I got it through my head that all I was worried about what she was thinking and what she was doing. You have to be ready to 100% move on, which means you are not scared to be alone and start over.

Then when I got to my true rope drop, I did it. Cut off every ounce of support for my WW, left the house and was ready to move forward because I knew I would be happier and my kids would be happier not in this environment.