gzabetas, we discuss attraction quite often in these sitches. And sandi is probably the biggest expert in what is attractive or not to WAW/WW.

But in general, attraction is closely related to respect. In a lot of cases the WAW has lost respect for her H. Maybe he is a SAHD (I've seen this one happen a lot). Or maybe he is suffering from depression. Or has a hard time holding down a job. Or maybe he has become a couch potato. On and on and on. The key to becoming attractive again, above and beyond dress, and looks, etc, is to regain respect. Obviously, being nicely groomed, in good shape, and dressing well can't hurt. But more important is regaining respect.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018