GAL continuing in full force - gym, working OT, dinner and drinks with friends. Multiple interesting comments from friends on my sitch and on my STBXW that I will elaborate on when I have more time. However the short of it is that more friends and family have told me that they witnessed W's harshness, nitpicking, and controlling behavior from time to time. There is a two-pronged effect of hearing this stuff - first, incredible relief that I am not crazy and that her personality issues are observable to others, but second - I am having a harder and harder time acting friendly toward W because I just don't think I even like her as a person.
