Just to clarify, that was W's message to me after trying to do something similar on the phone. I outright rejected her telling me what to do on the phone today, and haven't responded to or acknowledged that message.
Me 36, W 32 M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs 1st BD Aug 18 2nd BD Feb 19 EA w/ ex Aug 18 potential EA Feb 19 Trial Separation 3/2/19