The ring game analogy is perfect. I guess it gets to the point, you just get sick of it and put it down. Some people try to solve it a bit longer then others do, some people just realize it’s unsolveable early on. I think you handled her temperature checking quite well. And I’m hoping that since this tapered off in January it means she’s in a better place and not succumbing to her old vices. I would still like some validation..but I haven’t quite put my toy down yet. Although oddly enough, since the break up I am thinking of ex less and less.

I don’t let friends actions dictate whether i hang our with them. I find it interesting that you do. Of course, I voice my opinion. Offer them my version and experience. listen and write off their version. But I still hang out with them. I think cheating and affairs are very wrong. They are not people I would set up with anyone. But I still can have fun with them. I don’t feel attached to them that way I guess. I also did not boycott a certain crafts store when I needed to put together an emergency costume for my son last minute though. Or maybe because they didn’t hurt me personally, I’m not as angered. Which makes no sense because I get so mad at the walkaways on here, yet I don’t disengage with a friend that did the same to his partner.

Hope you guys enjoy the play. My son and I loved that book (but not as much as the Witches - that’s our favorite by raol Dahl. It’s laugh out loud funny)


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer