Yeah, you're right. I don't think my old roommate has any sort of intentions, but she been messaging me a lot (social media). It is really nice to talk, and share about our situations, but the happiness is very fleeting. I know I'm vulnerable and probably not in the right place for that. I also miss W more than ever.
I actually got a message from W today, hadn't heard from her since Thursday. She says she wants to talk, that nothing has changed on her end, but the time apart has been good for her. She wants to "check in and see how things are going". I was busy at the time, so replied 3 hours later "sure, when is a good time?".
We haven't talked on the phone since I left, and I have no idea what to expect. I know the game plan...validate, stand my ground, stay upbeat, but not too excited. I'm just hoping there isn't another BD...
Me 36, W 32 M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs 1st BD Aug 18 2nd BD Feb 19 EA w/ ex Aug 18 potential EA Feb 19 Trial Separation 3/2/19