I reconnected with an old friend and roommate who split from her husband not too long ago. We didn't realize that we were both going through this at the same time, and we talked for hours last night. It felt really good to speak honestly with someone that could actually understand this pain, and it felt good to share some of the things I've learned and potentially help her too.
Oh Jamine, please be careful.
There are too many red flags here.
1. Old friend and roommate. Have a shared history. 2. She split from her H recently. 3. You both are going through relationship problems. 4. It felt good, so you will desire another connection.
You both are ripe for a rebound relationship. Do you know how many relationships begin with the original intention being that they are helping each other go through their pain? My next question is how did you reconnect? Did she contact you by phone of social media? If she did.......then run!
Other than being vulnerable to this old roommate, I think you are doing very well. And, don't misunderstand me about your old friend. Even if this was entirely innocent on her part, you both are vulnerable. So, please be careful. (hugs)
I am jealous of your weight loss! It's so unfair how you guys can lose weight faster than the gals.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
