Embracing my Inner Me in progress

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My Xh M OW very soon after our D
like 5 months

He Married her 1 month after I met my still current BF
they moved away immediately

He contacted me maybe 2 years ago, I don't remember exactly when
He left a VM at my work phone saying he messed up, and was looking for help from some of his old friends
He did speak with a few of them who told me he was drunk and not doing well
said he wanted out of his M ect.
I did not call him b/c he asked for them to call not me-

I think they got D, a few years ago- but also back together b/c OW face book me a message telling me he messed up her life and she was too young to know better at the time
and she wanted to ship him back-
I also did not respond-

So Im not sure if they are together or not --no longer care or need to know
We have no contact nor has he contacted his sisters/or our /kids for many years
He is probably one of the worst cases Ive seen here because he is an active alcoholic
he was a recovering sober alcoholic for 20 years until Bomb

I let him and everything go