I got over my embressment (what got me is having the guts to actuly send it know that anyone can read it. I guess working on my self is paying off atleast I am getting braver)
You might want to ask your mom if she has takeing any antiboic's (or new medince for any thing) My mom's blood pressure went sky high and her Petussim drop really low. Her PCP counldn't figure it out. Then when she saw one of the speclist she goes to for her asthime. He figured out that it was a side affect of some meds the ER put her on for a cold. It wouldn't hurt to check to see if that is the case. (I forgot it was something she never had a side affect with before. I think it was amoxilecn)
With him not getting to work on time just proves that he won't be able to get 2nd job without it infering with the Ow. So on that subject I would still let him do that.
Quote: When he does stuff like this, it makes me question my efforts to save this marriage. Do I want to be married to someone who is a drunk, irresponsible, and unreliable? Is this who he has become? Or is this just temporary result of our sitch? will he stay in lala land forever? Will my intelligent, responsible, unselfish husband ever resurface? If not, then I am out of here.....my time is limited.....hope he sees the light soon....
Has he done all this drinking before Ow. Could it be part of his depression (I kknow it is probly making depression worse, But it would do no good to try and get him to see this). Have yall tried going to a counsler, myabe a cousnler would be able to help with his depression better than a reg. doc.. If you can talk H into going to a cousnler make sure it is a pro marriage and soultion orantend thepsit.
I would go to the movie. Try your best to act as if. Try to be a famliy that is close going to see a movie. Picture what you would do if you arin't in this stich. and then do it. Even if you feel a little silly. Think positive and have the outlook that you will have a blast and make it happen. For the lenght of the movie don't think of anyhting but having fun with your famley.
