Thanks dood , she is being super nice , just wanted to make sure , I am too impatient. I am newish at this and am expecting her to suddenly realise and wake up . I guess it is fear , or manipulation that driving her . She is a great person apart from this one thing . That is what makes it hard . So unless she does the honest give up og and commit to us then my boundary stands . 2x4 me again and again I haven’t learned much in 4 weeks that has stuck
