I am a bit late to the party , but I have overheard a listened to waywards and the general complaint they give is that they want to more than just a wife mother and housewife. Not sure how to resolve that one but I will suggest some things for you and the vets to consider. 1) explain you were unhappy because of the burden of being only a husband , provider and caretaker. 2) take her to a concert that she would enjoy 3) do something exciting you did when you met