TH, Doing well, thanks. Out to dinner with friends last night, attended Mass this morning, and dinner tonight with another group of friends.
Bubbs, Not to give you any false hope, but my W was the same way first few months. So much anger and resentment. Much of it has now subsided. During the rare times we get together (always at her initiative), we are civil, polite, and friendly with each other. She still wants D, but at least she is now assuming responsibility and no longer casting blame.
At Mass this morning, I was contemplating on the inner voice beckoning me to move ahead with certain plans. Right now, I feel if W wants to join me in the journey in which I think we each would derive much joy, that would be great. If not, then that would be her choice and I will have to learn to live with it.