Let her go. Don't fret over little things. Don't try to control how much cake she eats. Do what you think is fair and considerate, and don't try to make her feel something.....b/c you can't. Trust me, if you really let her go, she'll sense it. It's the biggest thing you could do to provoke her having a sense of loss for you. B/c if you genuinely let her go, she has lost you.
I don’t see what would or could happen if she senses she lost me. She has made it clear she hates me. She is done (said it at least 8 times). So if and when I can finally let go, what would hat do? I see it doing nothing.
