Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY part 2

[mikeyb]

When my W asks the same question, I've stopped repeating the answer and gone to: "W, we discussed this already. You remember, right?"

There's nothing wrong with you separating your finances either. Now just get out and get busy. How many hours are you working right now?

I'm working 40 hours a week. Finances are now separated I took back control of my money. I spoke with the MIL about this and why. She had no idea the W had papers already or planned to move so she agreed with my decision to take back my money and said it is the right move to make. She knows I will be in a tight spot to come up with the money I need in such a short time.