you're right. My W is a grown woman. She is capable of making her own decision and she is solely responsible for them. My in laws are not anything I should be worrying about or letting bother me.
I did just let her take the pooch. Not worth any big discussions.
Now W wants to go "back to dating". If this is her way of avoiding discussing all of her crap, then it's a no-go. But I also don't really need to discuss her 24/7 either. I'm going to take time to think it through before agreeing. And obviously I've let her off so easy in the past when she'd cross the line and violate a boundary.
She's been bringing up a lot of positives memories from our past, so that is strange. She's been discussing plans for the future, but again we've done that before and she's run back to OM. I'm still meeting with divorce lawyers and still going to discuss divorce/separation with my priest.
Got my office almost 100% done on the remodel. Have to install base trim and reassemble 4 desks then clean it up.
I have the house to myself this weekend! So nice to feel free and do what I want. I'm hoping to have some people of to watch the PPV boxing, but I may have to head into town for some fun. We'll see.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
