Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 7)

[Twofeet]

Bo,

I am no L so check with your L, but she may get temporary sole custody of the kids with the whole breastfeeding thing. Once YS is weaned it will probably go to 50/50. Like I said check with L.

You may get served or you may not. Before I got W to switch to a mediator she told me I wouldn't have to be served and I could just go down to her L office to get my walking papers. Once she dropped L and switched to the mediator it was the same thing. They had the papers and told me to come down and sign them when I had time, within the allotted window to respond. If you don't want to get served in public, just talk to W and L.

You are a flight risk? WTF! Were our spouses always this flakey and we were just to love-blind to see it?

One thing I think the Catholic church fails on is marriage prep. We had to do the weekend engaged encounter and that is just garbage. I think a longer education process, with stricter requirements is needed. Since the D is so easy getting married should be hard. I talked to my sister who is engaged about consequences of D in the church. She, like I think many of our faith are in the dark.

I know it hurts, but one foot in front of the other.