I am so happy you understood what I was trying to say. I am afried that when I put in my to cents that I might be leading someone in the worng dirction. I am really glad to be here for suport for you.
I think it is a great step that he called you even if it was just to check up on what or who you was with. It shows that he still cares.
Try to make sure you look hot, or at least feel that way almost everyday. I have quite wearing all the frumpy and baggy clothes that a always wore around the house. I did it for me, but it also got H's attion.
And I have strated to wear my good clothes when I not cleaning house. And when H notice I stared putting on perfume before I went to work. He asked who I was trying to get nice for. I smiled at him and said me. Now and then he complants me and how I smell and look. (been a long while since that had happened).
Quote: Then we both got ready and left separately. If he calls me again tonight, I will not answer the phone, he caught me offguard when he called last night, I could have pulled another 180 and ignored his call, or at least pretend I wasn't at home...
I really wouldn't pretend I wasn't home. But you can not anwser and when he ask about it later. You could tell him that you was in to good of a mood to let him calling you while he was with her get to you.
Pretending you ain't home would proply just get a fuss going. And right now that is the last thing you want to do.
Just rember this is going to take a lot of time. I was reading a post by BoldNBeutiful over in Peicing our M back. From what I have read she has been where you are. It might help you with your Stich. If you read hers. I haven't read much but thought it might help you.
