That is really positive. I'm dealing with all of that sort of stuff on my own - and I didn't before - for all his flaws and faults H was pretty good at keeping on top of the domestic admin and the bits and pieces of the kids' lives. When he left the house, I just became the default for all of that, despite the fact I've got a pretty full on job myself and am dealing with the emotional needs of the child he's opted not to bother with. I do feel resentment about that. I am really glad it isn't that way for you and that you're getting that kind of support. And I am glad mine is not the only 14 y/o who is a bit self absorbed... very reassuring.
I hope your hormones feel better soon. Is there anything you've done before that you know helps in times like this? Running? Sleep?
