Thanks, even though it doesn’t feel like it right now.
Her L sent these papers to me. I emailed my L last night soon after opening them asking about the next steps (obviously a response, but what specifically that would look like).
Probably a review set then, which explains why you weren't served. My XW did the same, had her L draw up the papers and send them to me for review before filing. That gave me a chance to mark them up. In my case there were just a lot of blatant errors in the papers that needed correcting, not to do with the settlement but careless stuff like misspelled words, missing pages, duplicate pages.
It's painful to go through, there's just no way around that. I wish I could say something to make you feel better but having been there I know there's no shortcut, you've just got to go through it.
