This isn't about rendezvous with the O/M they happen already. She lives with er EX husband and their daughter who is 18. Getting the kids to school and being watched isn't a problem for her. I am alone and work M-F from 4:30 Am until 2 sometimes as late as 4 PM. I am paying for after school care and for a college student to take the kids to school on Tues and Thurs. The kids are alone from 4 am until 7 am on those days already, they are asleep but alone. This breaks my heart already and there isn't anything I can do about it. How am I expected to make this work full time? Childcare for all of this already runs me around $450 a month. I had their old nanny move in a few days ago as she needed a place and it would help but she is only here until August. Now me and the kids sleep in the same bed and share a room. On top of all that I would miss my kids not seeing them for 5 days. I realize this is what divorce is. That doesn't mean I have to like it or make it easy for her to do. I am standing for my marriage, I know it's going to be tough and harder as this goes along but to use the kids as bargaining chips was something I never imagined would happen from her. This is a new low!
