How long have you been separated now, Dilly? It it about six months?
H moved out about nine weeks ago. Though I said I wanted him to move out back in November, we made it through December and past Christmas. We took the Christmas tree down on the 5th and he went the day after. I have to keep reminding myself it's still early days and I spent the first month falling apart and crying and raging and it is only in the past few weeks I've been able to care for myself fully and properly and get myself on an even keel. His big work thing finishes in mid-May, though I am trying really hard not to consider that the date that I'm going to get some clarity and certainty on the situation. I'm determined not to let this drag on all summer though.
