validate his complaints, but don't take blame. Next time he says somethig let him know that you hear and understand him. If It is something that might come up in the furture let him know that you see your part in it and that is something with you that you have to work on.
We each have our own little part in what happens in life. I belive we can Acknowlage it but at the same time not take the blame for what is wroung. And as long as we acknowladge our part and work on that we are moving in the wright diction.
Quote: Anyway, I think their moods fluctuate as much as ours.
I have a coworker who swares up and down that men PMS just like wemon. She has gone to the point of keeping traks of her and her H moods swings and they both know when it is time to let things just roll. She has suggest for me to do it. (But H never talks enough for me to try)
And maybe he had a bad time with OW, and taking out on you. That is really something noone knows. Just like when a bad day makes you cranky How would he know if you snapped. I think that every one had a habit of every now and then letting outside things effect R. I know that is one of my faults. And form what I have absevre others to.
Just try to go with the flow. In DR it talks aobut there will be good days and bad days. Sometimes it will be good weeks vs. bad weeks. We are on one hell of a roller coaster trying not to get thrown off. Just keep a good grip.
