Today she came to me about the filing paperwork again asking if I was going to fill them out. I said no, if this is what you want then you need to fill them out. She said I can't fill out your stuff, I said yes you can and anything you need I will give you to do it. She continued to fight me on it. But I stood firm, and said you fill it out with what you propose and I will review it and tell you anything I don't agree with.

She finally said, fine I will do it then and that was that. It was very hard for me to do it but I did. She also said she plans to move out in 2 months and will give the landlord notice at the beginning of may (our lease is month to month) I also told her I will be taking back my paycheck. She fought me on it and said I was going to screw her over. I said how else do you expect me to save money if I don't see any of my paycheck, besides $150 to get me back and forth to work.

So ya, there's where I'm at now. Still working to do what I need to and GAL, if she comes with the papers filled out I will do exactly as I said and go from there.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020