Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY part 2

[mikeyb]

Original thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2834746&page=1

Quick Recap:

M: 31 W: 29
Married 2yrs together 12

W: Works overnights
M Worked Overnights until 10/18, then to days

Lived with room mates 2 1/2 years, moved to our own place 11/17. W best friend moved in with us with 2 kids
Watched W best friends kids every weekend until 1/19
Went into depression being unhappy with my living situation, not getting quality time with my W due to opposite schedules and weekends consumed with the best friends kids, and my own insecurities
Spent money I shouldn't have during this time, ended up behind on bills, truck repossessed 10/18 redeemed 2 days later.
Started to make changes to get out of how I felt in 9/18 by going to days for more time with the W, dentist over my insecurities.
MIL took over finances to help us out.

11/23/18 BD ILYBINILWY/Divorce
Agreed to work on things by separating in house. Lasted 2 days then W was back in MBR with me.
late 12/18 find out she had no intent to work on things, she apologized for leading me on and said it was wrong. Same behavior continued for about 3 weeks.

After about 3 weeks W started sleeping in guest room again, then a few days later took the rings off.

Not a whole lot between then and February.
early 3/19 W and I discussed taking over bills and came up with a plan together.
3/10/19 W approaches me with papers to file for Simplified dissolution of marriage.
3/11/19 W wants to abandon our plan to take back control of finances and keep the MIL involved but with W managing it. I oppose this. I told her I would not contribute to filing for D, she says she is going to move out and I said do what you feel you need to. She gave no timeline on when she will but she knows financially I can't afford where we are at on my own.

And here I am now. Continuing everything I have done the last 4 months for myself.