Keep up the good work, as much as I hate hear this i have to say it It's going to take alot of time and Patince to see the tru .
Quote: But then tells me he is scared that he will hate me if he leaves OW for me (he is actually thinking about it now).
Next time H says that, Let him know that he has to leave her for himself not you. So there will be no reason for him to hate you. It is something he has to do for himself anyway. It's not like you can make him (if you could you would be in this poistion in the first place.)
Quote: He says that he wishes none of this had happened, that we could go back to the way we were a year ago.
That is one place even though you would love to go back in time I know i would. But you need to look to making the R better than it was befor all this happened. Learn for this and hope like hell to never repeat it.
Quote: I think that he is actually considering coming back to me, but is scared that things will go back to the way it was before, that he will be miserable. He doesn't trust us yet. I see us getting closer, but at the same time he is still infatuated with OW. He actually asked me yesterday if he could have both of us. I replied with a teasing smile NO. Normally I would have told him off, but I realized that at least he actually admits that he still wants me.... it's better then him asking me to let him go....
You have to go back to the time and Patiance when it come to him being sacared of things going back to the way they was. That will take some time for him to see that it won't and a lot of work on your part to make sure it dosen't.
Best of Luck & keep up the great job Kat
P.S. Please remind me of this post, when I need it.
