father5 just wanted to stop by and say hi. i know what you mean about the n/c mine, i think has gone deeper into the tunnel when she was coming round to the house id get a text first but then nothing.. i decided that i would not contact her at all, try and detach so she came to the house whilst i was at work got a few bits and pieces and then nothing again . i think she might be mirroring me but i an determined that i will not contact her for my own peace of mind i have made that promise to myself and stay dark and will not let myself down.the behavior you mention being new to her well mine, when i did see her seems to change behavior like the weather .ive been at this 10 months now since my bd and i have seen multiple different kinds of behavior. i know its hard .stay strong my friend it will get better.