I told you that you would hear from her when she was ready to talk.
Breathe! I would sit on your response for just a wee bit of time. You want to think everything through and reply in a calm voice. I would discuss your options with a lawyer before agreeing to anything. It is important that you are aware of your options and what you can and cannot do, as well as what she can and cannot do.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
