WAW says I'm the "perfect husband and partner"

[Jamine]

Just wanted to give an update.

W has been continuously sending me pics of our dog with a sweet message. Usually 1 a day. Most of these I don't respond to. The other day W went on a "girls weekend" skiing and sent me a pic of her and her friends from there. Since I'm out of town I didn't know about this until afterwards. My only reply was "glad you had a good weekend." I still don't completely understand why she's sending these, but I'm trying not to read into it at all.

I'm keeping up with DBing, but it isn't getting any easier, and nothing really feels like it's changing. Staying the course with all my good habits and GAL, but of course my wife has no idea about any of these improvements. I've dropped ~12 lbs since I left home, and I was working out regularly there. Changing my diet and doing HIT has made a big difference.

I reconnected with an old friend and roommate who split from her husband not too long ago. We didn't realize that we were both going through this at the same time, and we talked for hours last night. It felt really good to speak honestly with someone that could actually understand this pain, and it felt good to share some of the things I've learned and potentially help her too.