Got a life, now what?

[97Hope]

Hello Stander. Thank you so much for linking my post and for taking the time to read my story!

I do believe he is saving face. The kids only recently know about the sitch. I have been careful not to involve them because I knew he didn't want me to, but they have raised a lot of questions recently and without going into details, I have let them in.

I don't mean to be weird, but I can definitely have S without expectations. If/when it becomes emotionally bad for me, I can def say no.



For sure he is engaging in risky, dangerous behavior. He is not seeing the IC. He stays in his apt when he isn't here and doesn't do much socially unless it's with me. The red flags began years ago, now I just see him free falling.

[quote]He's on a roller coaster, so you need to be the rock now more than ever.

AMEN!