He came home this morning, came straight to the room and hugged me, said he missed me, I said me too. He then asked me how many people I have slept with since we separated. I told him that I was not a slut, that I have integrity and morals unlike his bitch. That I was a married woman who takes her vows to God seriously, that just because he failed in that respect, that I wouldn't follow suit. Then he was looking in the mirror and said oops! she gave me a hickey, he then proceeded to point it out to me and said she was a silly girl!! I was so upset, it seems like he thinks that being friends means he can talk to me about the OW as if I don't care. The other day he asked me if I thought about the two of them together, I said I used to, but it is too painful so I don't anymore. Anyways he asked me if something was wrong. I told him that I didn't appreciate him throwing his affair in my face. I told him that he is showing no regard for my feelings and that it was disrespectful to act as though there is nothing wrong with what he is doing. I told him that I was doing as he requested and leaving him alone, could he please extend that courtesy back to me and not joke around about adultery.(by either one of us).
I told him all of this in a calm voice, I did not get angry, just a matter of fact. I have told him before that I don't want him to tell me to find another guy etc... I felt the need to reinforce that boundary, even though it may have set me back with Dbing by showing my pain, I think it was necessary.
So much for them breaking up, Damn! Why doesnt that stupid girl get a conscience and leave him alone! When he says it's over, why does she continue to pursue him! Stupid little bitch. sorry needed to vent
