Be patient. She will poke her head out when she's ready. Sometimes they do this to "rope" you back in to see if you are still there waiting for them. Continue as you have been and when she sees that you aren't going to ask her what is up w/her, she'll come out of her hole once again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
