mikeyb...one thing to be mindful of on the legal paperwork topic.
Most WW's have NO IDEA about the divorce paperwork process. Immediately after BD you'll be rocked and might buy any crap she tells you. Bottom line, you have more rights and power than you know in the process. Don't sign or put anything into writing unless/until you have had your own legal counsel take a look. Once the WW realizes how involved the "paperwork" actually is...the dynamic of that aspect of your sitch will change.
