Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY

[Ready2Change]

Show her a confident man that does not want to be with a woman who doesn't want to be with him. Set her free to get her back. This is counter intuitive.


Somehow, you have to surprise her (in a positive way) every time you are interacting. She thinks she knows you. It is critical that you prove her wrong. These are the 180's.

Only you can figure this out. Take ideas from here and implement.


Are you an Alpha Male? Do you have Alpha traits? She needs to see these in you.

My understanding is she is not in an affair. Based on this, Next time she initiates sex, please don't turn her down. Take charge and do new things. If she expects it to be short. Make it last longer. If you are usually quiet, do some dirty talking. If she normally has on orgasm, give her three. These are just examples just to get you thinking of things to try.

I wish you well.