I was merely asking if you agree with his suggestion?
Only a fool would leave based on anecdotal advice from online strangers.
I will stay until I believe it is useless. I'm not there yet.
Quitting isn't my style until quitting looks like the best practice.
It isn't a matter of agree or disagreeing with him. It is more about if that is how he feels your sitch is best handled then he should say it. There are two great things about this forum:
1) All of the different perspectives you have. I am a conservative Christian, sandi is a former WW, Neffer is a former WH, then you have others that are more liberal. But it is not a bad thing to get different opinions and perspectives. 2) No one is obligated to follow any of the advice they hear here. We are here to try to support and help one another, but we can listen to the advice that makes sense for our sitch, and we can ignore what doesn't make sense.
RR, I love your attitude! I wasn't going down easy in my sitch either. She was either going to file D, or she wasn't. But I was going to stick it out for as long as it took.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
