If you already told her this before there is no point repeating yourself. It may be better to suggest to her to give you a time to meet and discuss what you want together before heading to mediation. If she can't do this, then you don't have to go to mediation if you are not ready. Its pretty much voluntary.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
