Hit by the dreaded ILYBNILWY

[mikeyb]

So she brought up the paperwork today and asked if I looked it over. I said yes and she said well.. So I said I will not be filing out paperwork to file for divorce at which point she said, fine I guess I have to go about this without you. And that she is going to move out because I need reality to set in. My response was do whatever it is you feel necessary. Then she said that she will get the other paperwork and for me to just not show up for the court date.

So, ya.... Kinda freaking out now, not over her, but financials because like I stated if she picked up and left I couldn't afford this place on my own.

Also, I had agreed to pay her taxes. I was going to file them earlier this week, I told her that I will do it and I just need to get her mom to send me the money for it and it would be done, she said well obviously. So I got to the point of paying it and called the MIL in which she refused to send me the money (my money BTW) to do it because the W just sold the boat and had the cash (that she wouldn't give to me for this). So I said whatever then she needs to deal with you on it then. Come today, apparently the MIL told the W that I was trying to con her out of $317, and the W believed it even though I had just told her I needed her mom to send it to me to take care of the taxes.

Additionally we had discussed and came to an agreement on taking over the bills from the MIL. We were going to start that at the end of the month, then she had talked to her mom and her mom said she will add her to her account that we are currently using and she could use that for the bills. I told her absolutely not, the whole point of our discussion and agreement was that we would take over the bills and money and handle things together without the MIL involvement.

Not really sure what to do right now. I could move my deposits back to my account but then she will try to say I'm being sneaky. I could leave it as is and not have anything if she picked up and left.