(((HOPE))) "Broken" is EXACTLY the word my XH used to describe himself. Also that he was breaking down... driving to the crisis clinic crying the whole way there... also said he would be going to an IC and did for a short period of time. Honestly, I think what he was struggling with is whether or not the OW was worth all of the pain and shame he would feel once his secret was out. Possibly he was undecided between the two of us for a bit but he did everything he could to sabotage his feelings for me long before he met her so it is a moot point. My friend said it best... "Try to think of what you've lost...and when nothing comes to mind, move on." Yep...that's the extent of it. Keep focusing on GAL and building your PMA. Don't worry what he is going to do. The more you do, the less likely your marriage will be saved... but if you take the advice here...you may still not save your marriage but you will DEFINITELY save yourself. (((HUGS)))
