Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by RR17
Okay, I'll play.

THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS
1. Certainty: assurance you can avoid pain and gain pleasure
2. Uncertainty/Variety: the need for the unknown, change, new stimuli
3. Significance: feeling unique, important, special or needed
4. Connection/Love: a strong feeling of closeness or union with someone or something
5. Growth: an expansion of capacity, capability or understanding
6. Contribution: a sense of service and focus on helping, giving to and supporting others


1. Certainty - she will be there for you.
2. Uncertainty - she surprises you with a gift from the store
3. Significance - she makes you feel important and needed
4. Connection - obvious
5. Growth - is your relationship growing
6 Contribution - not really relevant

Look man you get jaded when you hear things you don't want to hear (like you did with AS). We are trying to help you. What Accuray posted a year and a half ago was dead on.

Good luck!

Jaded: tired, bored, or lacking enthusiasm, typically after having had too much of something.

What jaded doesn't mean is that if I don't agree with assumptions from those that don't have all the details, that I am wrong.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.