I was merely asking if you agree with his suggestion?

Only a fool would leave based on anecdotal advice from online strangers.

I will stay until I believe it is useless. I'm not there yet.

Quitting isn't my style until quitting looks like the best practice.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.