Midlife crisis husband and separation

[hope2019]

Dilly, you are doing AMAZING but I would encourage you to think about being there with your neighbor... you know after today that a 30 minute wobble is something you can get over, who knows what progress you will make by being there for someone else in need.

I met up with my ex husband last week, who is also going through a separation and it was so helpful for me to give advice (It made me realize what I had learned), to listen, to practice some of my learnings on someone else, and to just be there for someone else's problems instead of focusing on mine.

And if after the first meet up, you find it makes you too fragile then you can just leave it there, but it also might be worth a try. (Also think back to how you felt in the beginning and how you would have been if you had a neighbor with a listening ear, it might have been different, it might not but its worth asking the question!)