R, What needs of yours is she meeting right now? I thought you quoted her as saying "I am not a tryer"
First off why do you ask?
IMO, the 2 are separate and very different issues. It is common understanding here that what a W does speaks stronger than what she might say.
As I have said many times before, W is meeting most every need except physical intimacy.
Still not sure of your point. LH19
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.