The reason I mentioned her parents, is because you have a tendency to lump them in with what your W is doing Your W is a grown woman. She has the ability to make her own decisions. Is it moral for her parents to enable what she is doing, no. But in reality, they are standing by their child. To me that shows you are trying to take some of the blame off of your WW. The blame belongs to your W and it's hers alone. 100% her choices.
This thing with the pup shows so much immaturity, we have been saying that since your very first post. Stop playing the games with her. You both have to grow up. You'll are fighting over a puppy!!
It's so much that both you'll need. Your W is so selfish and her consideration level is at 0. You need to learn how to hold her accountable. And, her accountability/consequences might end up being her losing you.
I have hope for everyone, but I really think you need space away from your W and it has to be your decision to leave. Your W loses hasn't added up enough for her to want to make the decision to choose you.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
