Some will go very quiet for a while and then come around act as if nothing has happened. She may be focused on something else, i.e., her new friends, lifestyle, etc. But, I can assure you, you will hear from her when she's good and ready to contact you.
I'm glad you are seeing your I/C today. It helps to have someone to talk to about the situation.
Keep the focus on you and your children and allow the man upstairs to work on your wife.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
